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Lory: where you bee at! so call me.I love you OK?
Angel: Thanks for the words of wisdom! Stay Strong Tommy!
laura: I'm too long winded, too! Anyway, sometimes success can be scarey and we think we don't deserve to be happy...that's a bunch of b.s.! You DO derserve this major milestone/success in your life! Lots of love & encouragement to you, my friend...!
Laura: Tommy----I think everyone has binged in some sort of fashion....ie: drinking, shopping, and something else I probably shouldn't mention! ;-) We sometimes fall off our convictions, but then have to get right back on and start fresh without guilt and without remorse. Those two feelings can push a person back into the binging stage. Just keep sight of your goal and don't let anything stand in your way! You're almost there!!! You can see the light at the end of the tunnel and sometimes success c
Paula (again): See...I'm always too long-winded - My last sentence got cut off. What I wanted to say was - thanks for sharing all this with perfect strangers. I'm sure you'll never know the full extent of the positive impact you've made on many people's lives!
Paula: Wow Tommy...how inspiring. You and I actually started weight loss journeys at the same time and then we crossed paths right around the time I hit my goal weight - last July when we both performed with Party Patrol. (Yeah, that Paula.) Even though I have not had as much of a weight loss as you, I can still totally relate to so much of what you've written in your blog. There's no Skinny Cows at my house either! Thanks for your courage in being able to share such a personal journey with perfec
Lisa Dunko: You are absolutely amazing. What a magnificent journey you are on. You truly are an inspiration. Miss ya.
Former Hater tot #2: 300 Unbelieveable!!! Great JOb, Keep it up!!!!
Former Hater Tot: Wow! You look fantastic and have sooo much will power! I'm beyond impressed. Congrats & keep it up!!!
Jaimais: Thought I'd post to say hi & great work! because I don't talk to you everyday
John Bradley: Tommy,Dam, still kicking ass, nice job. Iam am very proud of you, i know the ladies are falling at your feet now. I have shown you off to some Hooter Girls in Chicago and they DAM!!! You are known in Chicago>>Keep it up baby, we will have to have dinner soon..
Tracy: Tommy... what can I say - I'm so damn proud of you!! You are a stud! Always - one day at a time. You're one of the sweetest guys around - get done what you need to get done and don't worry about taking care of others. You deserve this time - ENJOY IT!! lOVE YOU TONS :o)
Ann : Hey Tommy ! You look Super! Left you a voice mail message. CAll me
Nick: Tommy Boy, How was the band doing so far? Hey can't wait to see you guys at summerfest this year tommy boy.. You guys rock alot... nick
Jaimaiss: Tommy! What an awesome new website!! New website=new you?
Lisa A.: What happened w/Vlna?He still alive?! Tell him 2 call! Thanks, Keep up the loser man, looking good! ~Lisa
Cupcake: Hi Tommy, I Have been thinking about you, glad thing are going good. By the way Happy Birthday!!
Penny: Tommy, hope you had a happy birthday!! See ya at Rooters!!
Tommy: Oh AL (Aunt Lory)...you're too kind! :) Hope you have a great Tuesday b-day! And, I will love You forever!
AL: On Monday it will Tommy's birthday. happy birthday big guy, I will love you forever!AL
Tommy: Ryan, I'm just the man who knows the man....it ain't no thang!!! ;)
Ryan: Tommy is the man!!!!!!!
Another Cuz: You are the one of the most nicest and incredible people anyone could ever have in their life. Thanks
Tommy: Thanks Penny! See you Friday! :)Tommy
Penny: Tommy_ Congrats on you weight loss!!!! I'm back on diet, but haven't seen what the scale says yet. Taking my dog for her daily run (she prefers it to walking) helps. Sorry we missed you at Papa's, we left early because Beth had to work. We will be there this fri, celebrating a birthday
BlogReader: Nice to read how you've managed to lose weight, and how you've been able to stick to your diet and exercise regime...usually ;) . But it's even nicer to hear about the positive changes on the inside - more confidence, more self-aware, more open to life's possibilties...keep up the good work!
Shell: Ed's sister again. Keep up the good work and positive attitude.
Jaimais: Keep up the great work Thomais! You are an inspiration to many!
Jane: Tommy - sometimes when you are tired like today - listen to your body - take some time buddy - MISS You- Mequon is coming along - when will you come see the studio - Ben, Jeremy, Michelle, Bill, and Becky would love to have yo come for a Sat workout - change would be good some Sat. Take a day if you are beat and attack it harder the next day - Miss you hope to see you next week sometime - Jane FT
Cupcake: Hey Tommy -Hey you are looking very good!! Keep it up!! Let talk!!
Deva: way to go, hotstuff. seriously. keep it up!!
Gail: Great attitude for today, TB - one day at a time and appreciate the little things is all we can do. Three things we need: work we enjoy doing, people to love, someting to look forward to. Sounds like you have all three.
Gail: Tommy Boy, I'm enjoying hearing about your progress. Yes, it's doable, and you'll do it! One day at a time. Sometimes setbacks, but 2 steps back, 3 forward.Mequon closed for 2 days :-( for remodel, but will be better when finished. Jeremy is good.
Tommy: Gail -Wow! Thanks for the great words for me!!! It is totally appreciated. :) Jeremy is a great guy - he'll keep you working!thanks -Thomas
Gail: Tommy, got the info about your blog from your recent letter about Fitness Together. I'm in their program in Mequon. The Biggest Loser program inspired me to start exercising like this. I don't have weight to lose, but have strength to gain! I'm a lot older than you and I don't have much choice now but to keep exercising. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK! You have a lot of people cheering you on. Jeremy is my trainer iin Mequon. You'll be a great example to a lot of people to want to feel well and live bett
Jeremy: Never noticed this part of you blog... Tommy I believe that your most challenging change is when you decided to change your life. The hardest part is over my friend. You are a success
keri: Tommy you're doing an awesome job with your weight lossKeep up the fantastic job.
Tommy: I buy those all the time...Mmmm.....feel the burn - I like it a lot!!! :)
Your Cuz: Don't forget to buy those Wasabi Peas!!
Amy: I was cut off!!!I also wanted to say congrats on the 117lbs and I know you will continue to lose. - Amy
Amy: I've been reading your blog since day one. You are doing great. I've lost weight and quit smoking all at the same time and it FEELS GREAT! I try to walk everyday, but it's hard to get motivated at times. The way you are losing weight is the best way and you will be successful. Keep writing your blog and keep being open with people about what's going on. Believe me that really helps. I've seen people not wanting help from their family and they weren't successful. If you keep involving pe
Tommy: Jim -I'll pass your info on to her - thanks for hanging with us at coins. rock on,Tommy
JIM: Tommy, I enjoyed your show @ Coins. I also am told that that a woman I am trying to get intouch with is a friend of yours. Gus said that on your bands guest messege board. Pleae read about the woman in white shirt. Thanks much in advance. PS Keep up the great work
Your Cuz: Yo Thomas. Sorry, I didn't know that was you walking the other night!!!!! J/k obviously. Those are the types of people I would love to freaking hunt down so I can get rid of some of my stress. Oh well....keep it up.
Penny: Way to go Tommy!!!! See ya at Coconut Joes this friday
Rachel: Good Luck!
Jane: Hang in there Tommy - remember; everyone has moments when they don't feel good in their own skin. The confidence you have gained has made you decide to make you work harder and make you want it more. Boy - you have come so far. You are turning to exercise when you feel down - GREAT JOB TOMMY - you are going to get there I KNOW YOU WILL - WE ALL DO - "some days aren't to different from your dreams" - Jane
Tommy: Awww shucks - Thanks blogreader!!!
BlogReader: "A work in progress I am"...as are we all. "And as far as the ladies go, I’ll letcha know as soon as I find one – or one finds me."...I'm surprised you haven't been snapped up already. From what I've read in your blog you seem like a great guy. And I've seen your band...so I know you're a cutie-pie! Wishing you the best in this new year!
Tommy: Thanks Jacob! :) I used to LOVE legos too! What fun!!! And thanks to DQ2 for the kind words -:)

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Thursday, July 12th 2007

7:28 PM

Interesting Story....

  • Mood: enthused
  • Music: Double Crossed - It's Only Love

Here's a story I saw on Yahoo....Kind of sad, as it makes me think about my childhood.  

I'll write more tomorrow - I'm running the Storm The Bastille run tonight...Wish me luck!!!  Boy did I pick the wrong day to quit drinking diet soda & caffeine.....Gah.  I may have to break down and have a diet coke.....

Associated Press

Overweight kids face widespread stigma

July 12, 2007 12:54:45 AM PST

Overweight children are stigmatized by their peers as early as age 3 and even face bias from their parents and teachers, giving them a quality of life comparable to people with cancer, a new analysis concludes.

Youngsters who report teasing, rejection, bullying and other types of abuse because of their weight are two to three times more likely to report suicidal thoughts as well as to suffer from other health issues such as high blood pressure and eating disorders, researchers said.

"The stigmatization directed at obese children by their peers, parents, educators and others is pervasive and often unrelenting," researchers with Yale University and the University of Hawaii at Manatoa wrote in the July issue of Psychological Bulletin.

The paper was based on a review of all research on youth weight bias over the past 40 years, said lead author Rebecca M. Puhl of Yale's Rudd Center for Food Policy and Obesity.

It comes amid a growing worldwide epidemic of child obesity. By 2010, almost 50 percent of children in North America and 38 percent of children in the European Union will be overweight, the researchers said.

While programs to prevent childhood obesity are growing, more efforts are needed to protect overweight children from abuse, Puhl said.

"The quality of life for kids who are obese is comparable to the quality of life of kids who have cancer," Puhl said, citing one study. "These kids are facing stigma from everywhere they look in society, whether it's media, school or at home."

Even with a growing percentage of overweight people, the stigma shows no signs of subsiding, according to Puhl. She said television and other media continue to reinforce negative stereotypes.

"This is a form of bias that is very socially acceptable," Puhl said. "It is rarely challenged; it's often ignored."

The stigmatization of overweight children has been documented for decades. When children were asked to rank photos of children as friends in a 1961 study, the overweight child was ranked last.

Children as young as 3 are more likely to consider overweight peers to be mean, stupid, ugly and sloppy.

A growing body of research shows that parents and educators are also biased against heavy children. In a 1999 study of 115 middle and high school teachers, 20 percent said they believed obese people are untidy, less likely to succeed and more emotional.

"Perhaps the most surprising source of weight stigma toward youths is parents," the report says.

Several studies showed that overweight girls got less college financial support from their parents than average weight girls. Other studies showed teasing by parents was common.

"It is possible that parents may take out their frustration, anger and guilt on their overweight child by adopting stigmatizing attitudes and behavior, such as making critical and negative comments toward their child," the authors wrote, suggesting further research is needed.

Lynn McAfee, 58, of Stowe, Pa., said that as an overweight child she faced troubles on all fronts.

"It was constantly impressed upon me that I wasn't going to get anywhere in the world if I was fat," McAfee said. "You hear it so often, it becomes the truth."

Her mother, who also was overweight, offered to buy her a mink coat when she was 8 to try to get her to lose weight even though her family was poor.

"I felt I was letting everybody down," she said.

Other children would try to run her down on bikes to see if she would bounce. She had a hard time getting on teams in the playground.

"Teachers did not stand up for me when I was teased," McAfee said.

A study in 2003 found that obese children had much lower quality of life scores on issues such as health, emotional and social well-being, and school functioning.

"An alarming finding of this research was that obese children had (quality of life) scores comparable with those of children with cancer," the researchers reported.

Sylvia Rimm, author of "Rescuing the Emotional Lives of Overweight Children," said her surveys of more than 5,000 middle school children reached similar conclusions.

"The overweight children felt less intelligent," Rimm said. "They felt less popular. They struggled from early on. They feel they are a different species."

Parents should emphasize a child's strengths, she said, and teachers should pair up students for activities instead of letting children pick their partners.

McAfee, who now works for the Council on Size and Weight Discrimination, said her childhood experiences even made her reluctant to see a doctor when she needed one. She recalled one doctor who said she looked like a gorilla and another who gave her painkillers and diet pills for what turned out to be mononucleosis.

"The amount of cruelty I've seen in people has changed me forever," McAfee said.

The Yale-Hawaii research report recommends more research to determine whether negative stereotypes lead to discriminatory behavior, citing evidence that overweight adults face discrimination. It also calls for studying ways to reduce stigma and negative attitudes toward overweight children.

"Weight-based discrimination is as important a problem as racial discrimination or discrimination against children with physical disabilities," the report concludes. "Remedying it needs to be taken equally seriously..."

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